49th .. On my way to Golden Age #TopGunMaverick

This year is my last of enjoying my 40s.  To make it memorable, we went and watch the Top Gun Maverick movie.   It’s been a while since we last watch a movie on the big screen as a family.  Our kids actually watched it already with their friends but they want to watch it with us so we did. I can say, Tom Cruise is still awesome!

My birthday this year is probably the saddest ever since I got married.  I mean its not really a big of a deal for me since I grew up without celebrating birthdays anyway.  I guess my husband spoiled me that he always make sure I celebrate.   This year is sad not because I didn’t have a party or anything but because my husband’s forgetfulness is getting worse.  He’s forgotten it was my birthday, till of this writing he hadn’t remembered about it which is fine.   I’m worried that he’s developing a memory loss at his young age.   

I thought for sure, he will remember it because we went to the courthouse and got divorced… Not.. I’m kidding lol.  We went there to pay our property tax and he forgot what date it was and I told him, he has no idea!   I wasn’t disappointed but sad that old age is unfolding right before my eyes.   I might be exaggerating it but I’m literally worried for him.  I hope that I’m just being sensitive because its my birthday and that nothing is really going wrong with my husband.

Anyway, he got a pass for me but I did cry at the end of the day because my son have forgotten it also and he went out with his friends and to make the matter worse, he stayed overnight at his friend’s house which was unexpected.  Then he stayed the whole day of the next day.  I was starting to get irritated but I didn’t let it show since I didn’t want to have a migraine but I ended up with one anyway.

On the brighter note, my daughter did not forget!  Also, we did fun stuff prior and after my birthday.  We drove our daughter to Davis and Elkins College for the weeklong Rhododendron All State Girls leadership training that she has to attend to.

I thought something was off since our daughter was extra quiet and she seems very down.  Hubby and I thought she was just stressed out about the event.  I didn't know then that her and her boyfriend broke up the night before we left.  That was not a good day for her as she worked a long shift that day.  I feel bad for her but that's part of growing up and getting into a relationship.  They're still young and I'm sure she will bounce back from it just fine, but the first heartache is always the worst.  Hopefully she get over about it soon.

Anyway, I am on my way to golden age, yeah!