"Marriage is an act of will that signifies and involves a mutual gift,
which unites the spouses and binds them to their eventual souls,
with whom they make up a sole family - a domestic church."
- Pope John Paul II
16 years ago today, hubby and I decided to officially seal our long-distance relationship. We've dated online for about 8 months and despite skepticism and a lot of opposing opinions from other people, we gave it a go and believed that we could make it work. Thank God we did because when I look at my children now, I always think, what if I listened to those voices and did not try us? I would have regretted it for the rest of my life.
Life is really unpredictable. You never know what will happen so it is best to take risks and try your best to make it work. I believe in destiny and fate. Who would have known that a 30 year old me would met a guy from almost-heaven, West Virginia. I did not even imagined I would go out of my country. My childhood dream was to finish school and find a good job and hopefully meet a man and have a family we could both raise. Never in my dream I would marry a foreigner and live outside my comfort zone but here we are 16 years later.
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| "The real act of marriage takes place in the heart, not in the ballroom or church or synagogue. It's a choice you make - not just on your wedding day, but over and over again - and that choice is reflected in the way you treat your husband or wife. " Barbara De Angelis |
I thank God for blessing me a wonderful man, a great and loving husband and father to our children. I thank him for choosing a little feisty Bicolana and bringing me here in WV, I love it here.
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| "There is no more lovely, friendly and charming relationship, communion or company than a good marriage. " - Martin Luther |
I hope and pray that we could grow old together. That even if our hair turned grey, we could continue to be each other's strength and love each other till our last breath. Thanks for the love, humor, and faith in me.
"A wedding anniversary is the celebration of love,
trust, partnership, tolerance and tenacity.
The order varies for any given year."
Paul Sweeney
